Getting riled up over sensational gossip media pieces does nothing to help anybody.

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Some tend to get angrily riled up over something a public figure said or did in the media. This does nothing to change that person and it doesn’t resolve anything. You don’t know them and you’re not in their house having a conversation with them. Instead your aura marinates in that toxic cesspool energy that doesn’t hurt the target. It hurts you and your well-being, while simultaneously blocking heavenly spirit guidance from coming in.

This dark energy flows into the cells of your body and gets lodged in there when improperly channeled. If that anger is a daily pattern or left unchecked, then it can manifest into something more harmful such as a breeding ground for future diseases and health issues. When you’re in the epicenter of that developed hurricane of toxicity forming in and around you due to your own words, feelings, and thoughts, then it’s difficult to be aware that you are. Dark energy blinds you to the truth. When one falls into the deep seed of repetitive anger, they are out of their minds, and oblivious to how far down the rabbit hole they’ve fallen. They later realize that it’s been one thing after another going wrong in their life and unaware of how or why it grew at such an astronomical rate.

The best way to counteract this is by avoiding the media. Stop seeking out salacious top trending headlines designed to attract, entice, and lure you in. The ego loves drama because it’s designed to get you caught in its web preventing you from seeking out more positive activities to focus on. Using discernment and good judgment over what is worth knowing and what is something that is out of your hands.

There are a number of people around me who don’t get involved in gossip or media to the point that they really don’t know what everyone is arguing about, and they like it that way. Unless your job is a position that requires you to correct certain issues you’re passionate about, then there is no benefit to joining in with the crowd to argue about the latest dramatic news story. You’re either preaching to the choir or you’re not. The ones who don’t agree won’t be swayed so it’s a time waster.

100% of the time what people are arguing and gossiping about is forgotten within 1-3 days as another enticing headline flies to the top of the list to attract in their focus. It can take practice and enormous willpower to not be tempted to read certain types of articles. That practice includes immediately knowing whether something is a gossip piece or is an objective balanced news piece focused on straight neutral reporting. If everytime you get riled up over pieces put up by a particular news source, then it’s time to step away from that source for awhile in order to get re-centered and re-directed on more important priorities that will ultimately bring you joy and peace.


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Should I unfriend or block my ex on social media?

Should I unfriend or block my ex on social media?

Should you unfriend or block your ex on social media? That’s a question I’ve been receiving in abundance over the years. What should you do?

The #1 rule to do if an ex broke up with you is to stop contacting them. Arguing, pleading, or crying is not going to make them change their mind. If someone chose to leave you, then they already had it in their mind to do so long before they officially did it.   If you were the one that was left, then that should wake you up to say, “Wait a minute, you don’t like me?   You don’t want to be with me? Well, that just killed my erection.” It should be a turn off when someone decides they no longer want to be with you. Unfortunately, for some that’s easier said then done. There are numerous reasons as to why someone chooses to leave you, so we’ll stick with generalities.

A part of you might feel like there is a chance that you could get back together with your ex.   Maybe the break up was premature or there were some minor issues that broke it up where the possibility of reconcilement is not an outlandish notion.   Grounds for firing and eliminating them would be repetitive abuse of any kind or cheating, but if neither of those was the cause for break up, then you might feel there is a chance you could get back together at a later date.

If you have zero feelings for your ex and have no interest in ever getting back together with them, but you don’t hate them, then it’s harmless to keep them on your social media page. You won’t be bothered seeing their posts or seeing them post photos of them with new lovers should that happen eventually. If you’re not interested in getting your ex back, then it doesn’t matter if you leave them on your social media account or not.

For those that want their ex back, then the first answer is to unfriend them. Part of not contacting them means they’re not constantly in your face everytime you log into your social media account. You might even choose to go so far as to block them, so you can’t get into a game where they are trying to re-add you. When someone chooses to leave you, then that should be a turn off. If you still feel there is the possibility of rekindling the flame, then you need to not contact them period ever.   If they can’t see you, then there is a greater possibility of them missing you and realizing where did he/she go and what have I done?

Some people want to keep their exes on their page for a few reasons. One is that they fear if they unfriend or block them, then the ex will forget about them.   That is not likely to happen if someone felt strong intense love feelings about you at one point. The love may fade for a bit, but deep love never really goes away even if both people have broken up and carried on with new separate lives.

The second reason that some want to keep the ex on their page is to get the ex riled up by posting great posts or photos of you moving on in life and having a great time without them. This will make them wonder and potentially make them jealous. The flipside is you may also see them doing the same thing. They may put up posts showing what a great time they’re having as a single person. You might see them post photos of themselves with other potential love interests, or they’ll even change their status to ‘in a relationship’. If you know that you will not get upset or fly into a rage at them over seeing those posts, then it’s safe to keep them on your page. But if you know that you won’t be able to control yourself should you potentially see something that upsetting, then unfriend the ex.

One of the nice features of Facebook specifically is that if you don’t want to unfriend someone for whatever reason, you are given the option to unfollow them or you can hide their posts. There is a button in the upper right hand corner that allows you to hide someone’s posts. This shows their posts to you infrequently or not at all for a lengthy period of time. The person you do that to will not know you’ve done that and they will still remain in your friends list. What that also means is they will rarely if ever see your posts either.

You may choose to take no action at all and just leave them on your social media account knowing that you might consider getting back together with them at a later date if that becomes an option. This will not prevent your ex from choosing to hide your posts, unfollow you, or unfriend, and possibly block you. There could be three potential reasons as to why they might have done that. Two of those reasons might be concerning, while the third reason works in your favor.

If they choose to hide your posts, unfollow, unfriend, or block you, then that’s because they’re officially done with you, are moving on, and want no contact with you. The other reason is they don’t want to have to worry about what they’re posting and if it will upset you. The third reason, which is more in your favor in this case, is that they’ve done that because it’s too painful to have you in front of them all the time on social media since they still have deep intense feelings for you. Or they don’t want to get emotionally upset if you post something that could rile them up.   Of course there is no real way to know which one of those is the reason they would’ve done that. All you can do is stand back, disappear, go on with life, and let time pass to see what ends up transpiring as a result or not.

Do not check out your exes social media page. Stay away from their page, no matter how tempted you are to see what’s going on.  Also, don’t like and especially do not comment on their posts.  Do the best you can to ignore the posts and scroll past it on your wall.  I know you may have a tough time following that, but do the best you can.  Checking out your exes page causes psychological distress, lowers your vibration, and tampers with your well-being. The distress expands the more you still want them or the more trouble have with moving on. You need to look at it as if the connection is done, over, the end.

As someone who has been around the block quite a bit, with that comes an enormous amount of experience.  I have had exes come back, so I’m not just blowing around hot air. I generally stick to discussing content that I’ve experienced firsthand, then I pass it onto you or anyone interested. One of my exes came back to me three weeks after our break up, then again after a year and a half went by. Another ex I was involved with broke up with me. Three and a half years later passed and we ended up back together again and the relationship was better the second time around and lasted longer. Another ex came looking for me thirteen years after we broke up, and another ex of mine came looking for me twenty-years later. I know that’s a quite a number of exes, but to be clear there have been six long term relationships.  And the point is that every single one of my exes came back.

What did I do to get the exes back? Nothing. I wasn’t trying to get back with them. I moved on. I ignored them. I worked on forgetting about them. I continued on living life. The not seeing me or hearing from me indefinitely was beyond dreadful to them apparently. Maybe they didn’t know how to be in a relationship at the time when we were together, maybe they made a mistake breaking up, but in the end they all realized they could not have me permanently gone. What does that do for me? What if I’m not okay with that?

In the beginning, after the break up I did disappear. There was no way in Hell I was going to have their life shit in front of me.   However, because so much time had passed after the break ups with my exes, any painful wounds on my part had healed, so it didn’t bother me on a negative emotional level to have them wanting to hang around and be in contact at a much later date.   I didn’t care if they were on a date with someone because I had zero interest in wanting them back.

If you’re not in that space yet where that would be okay for you, then unfriend the ex from social media, or at least hide their posts so that you never see what they’re posting, but they’re still in your friends list. You have to emotionally train yourself to be strong, have resilience, not contact them, and stay away. Over time, if the relationship is intended to evolve into a new brighter relationship AFTER you’ve both healed and worked on yourselves, then that will happen naturally on its own time.

 

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Being angry at someone else isn’t going to make them change, nor will it enlighten them

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Every hour spent angry is a waste of time. Take that anger and channel it positively through action that can fix or correct whatever it is your angry about, otherwise work on letting it go.

Being angry at someone else isn’t going to make them change or enlighten them. They’re off happily doing their thing while you’re at home brooding over something they did, said, or anything about them. This can be someone you know personally, a public figure, or a stranger.

 


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Examples of my day to day mini-psychic hits. Clairaudience, Clairvoyance, Claircognizance, Clairsentience.

Random psychic foresight related hits received throughout each day are often insignificant. These are things such as while watching a film I’ve never seen, I clairaudiently hear the dialogue before it’s said. A few beats later the character says it on screen.

I frequently know why someone’s calling regardless of who it is, what the overall content of an email is going to say, and I have tendency to find my phone to answer it only to discover it never actually rang. As I’m walking away it starts ringing for real and I have to turn back. When talking I have a habit of interrupting people and finishing their sentences already knowing what they were going to say.

Another example is this past week where I was at the end of working out on the beach. I slowed down to take a walk on the sand along the crashing waves on this beautifully quiet hot day with no one around on this particular stretch. In my “minds eye” a bright flash shot up and exploded, and the light layer peeled away and this blonde surfer guy was approaching me to ask if I had the time. Totally pointless and irrelevant vision….or is it.

A minute or two later I heard a voice while cutting in and out of a partial trance state. Perplexed I then realized it was happening in real time as the voice grew closer calling out again, “Excuse me.” I whipped around stunned that someone was there. It was like seeing a ghost since it was the same blonde surfer guy in the trance a minute before holding his board smiling, “Do you know what time it is?” “Yeah, it’s…”

His smile gradually relaxed refusing to leave studying me as if coming to the realization of something. He asked my name and if I lived around there. The start of a longer conversation was kicked off and grew where we both recognized that this is a mutual new friend. Imagine if everyone was paying attention to those incoming hunches and acting on them.

You’ll note these mini-illustrations are just random little hits such as the phone, or the screen dialogue, or a flash of someone that’s going to appear any minute who may have importance, and on and on. This is hundreds and hundreds of meaningless mini-cues that happen everyday for as long as I can remember. Sometimes it’s immaterial and other times it’s bigger leading to something else.

This is part of the reason I always appear distracted, and not present, as I’m paying attention to way too much information than one can handle from both the physical and spiritual sides. I would never recommend being in my head. You’d end up traumatized and reaching for a drink.

 

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Sow abundance seeds this week with Halloween, All Saints Day, and the Full Moon

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It’s All Hallow’s Eve, Halloween, and All Saints Day this week. We will be feeling the energy build up each day to the Full Moon this weekend. This particular energy is especially influential for manifesting, so be sure to stay positively focused, otherwise any negative energy will multiply in that direction.

The Full Moon will be soaring through the security conscious sign of Taurus. This will push ones focus and longing towards material and physical desires. This includes finances and career, to love relationships and sensuality, and to all things connected to the home base. The Halloween energy isn’t necessarily as frightening as one might assume. The doorway has opened its widest to manifesting abundance more than anytime of the year. It’s the true Autumn Harvest making it the perfect week to start something new. Plant the seeds of your dreams this week by making progress through action steps and implementing movement, so that what you sow may gradually blossom and grow over the next six months into fruitful abundance.

 


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Page of Wands. Tarot Lesson Basics.

Image may contain: 1 personTarot Card Meanings. The Page of Wands.

PERSON:

The Page of Wands can reveal a young person under or around the age of 25 who has a Fire sign in the top tier of their chart. This is Aries, Leo, Sagittarius. (Top tier can be Sun sign, Rising, Moon, Venus, Mars.)
If they do not have those stats, then this is someone regardless of age or sign who is restless, impulsive, extroverted, excited, and always on the go. When this young passionate person comes racing in, they just as quickly race out. They are the most impulsive and reckless of all the Pages. Bursting with energy they grow bored if a relationship or endeavor is not exciting and interesting around the clock. This Page doesn’t need to be told they’re great. They have natural confidence and already know it.

The flipside is the Page of Wands person can be too confident and a know it all who speaks out of turn. They’re the ones in the classroom who call out without raising their hand. Their passionate forthright energy can be infectious and therefore they are naturally popular. This is a charming being who enjoys attention, but can be prone to moodiness on occasion. This person also may have tons of pride, so it could take them awhile to apologize for something, or they’ll apologize right away just to keep things moving along. The Page of Wands character is a free spirit running from place to place. They can be impatient and out the door without apology. Where the Page of Pentacles prefers to be around one or two close friends at a time, the Page of Wands loves to be surrounded by a big social circle.

MESSENGER:

The answer to a question with this card can be a resounding yes. Will the person contact me? Yes, but it may be a superficial message of attraction, desire, and passion. This person might send a hot racy text, email, or phone call. They require your immediate attention and will keep persisting frantically until they give up and move onto something or someone else just as quickly. The Page of Wands blows in and out fast. What they desire today can change tomorrow. This is why this can be a superficial message. On a more serious work related note, the message of the Page of Wands can be an answered prayer or good news related to a job offer, promotion, or work related project. It’ll come through via any means possible such as post office mail, email, text, phone call, or social media message.

SITUATION:

The Page of Wands as a situation in a reading can read much like the Ace of Wands where this is the start or a spark of a new creative endeavor. It can be that you need to be impulsive about a situation and act quickly. This is someone filled with ideas and excitement. This is not a planner, but someone who dives head on into things. Caution should be adhered to when you’re in an impulsive mood. Weigh the consequences and pros and cons before jumping in blindly. At the same time the Page of Wands can be telling you to take that risk. Be passionate and fearless and go after what you want with gusto. Be a natural born confident leader.

This is about taking action on something. Coming up with an idea and getting to work on it. This card can bring inspiration whether divinely guided or inspiration from another person. If you have reservations about something, then this says to remove those doubts and fears and do it. The Page of Wands doesn’t think about or entertain the word fear. If this Page wants something, it goes out and gets it without reservation.

The Page of Wands can also indicate travel, taking a vacation, or movement with something including your body in physical exercise. The Page of Wands can be the start of a passionate relationship that may be fiery and intense, but could fizzle out quickly.

{ Excerpt from my book, “Tarot Card Meanings”
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Carolina with Julia Stiles, Shirley MacLaine, Alessandro Nivola and the dance with Miramax’s Harvey Weinstein

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I knew Harvey Weinstein professionally, as Miramax agreed to purchase the little indie Julia Stiles film I associate produced back in 2002 called, “Carolina“. They basically saved us after we lost financing from the financers in the U.K. We were then able to move forward and start filming after we had previously shut down.

On one occasion, I remember Harvey was outside of the theater where he had just finished viewing a private final cut of the movie. One of the things he said was, “You guys have got yourself a hit movie. We’re going to blast it all over MTV during Super Bowl Weekend.” That never happened. Miramax ended up not distributing the film in the U.S. and released it straight to DVD.

At an event months later, Julia was walking past a reporter that shouted, “What happened to ‘Carolina‘!?” She glared leaning into the mic and abruptly with a chill in her voice said, “You’ll have to ask Harvey Weinstein.” And then walked off.

I know you were probably hoping for some private salacious titillating gossip about Harvey, but I’m not going to go there.  Normally I never join in with any current top trending scandalous media story, but in this case the subject is someone I knew in the professional sphere. Most anyone who is anyone in the industry knows or knew him at some point. Aside from business, personality wise on a deeper level he and I didn’t mix, so it was strictly small talk or stuff related to the movie.

There are a great many good hardworking people in the industry who are nothing like the predator like behavior being reported.   I’ve been lucky enough to work with and become close to the good people, while moving on from the less than desirable ones.

There’s a lot of bullying in Hollywood even though I was never personally victim to it, but there’s a lot of bullying around the world period and in general.   Those that claim to care, hopefully this isn’t just some story you’re jumping on the bandwagon for two days, and then onto other things.  Whatever happen to Vegas, gun control, the fires, hurricanes, and on and on?  Bouncing from one media trend to another pretending to care for a day and then onto other things.  If it’s something you truly care about, then stay focused on it indefinitely making your fight to do what you can to produce positive change.

Julia gave up another semester of school as she really wanted to make this movie after Reese Witherspoon and Kate Hudson dropped out to do other projects. We had also cast Shirley MacLaine (who replaced Kathy Bates), Alessandro Nivola, and Jennifer Coolidge.

We had done a pre-screening of Jurassic Park 3 to watch Alessandro back then, and he smiles a lot in that which makes him charming.  Because his personality in person is on the serious no smiles side, but he is super nice,  so we asked if he would smile more in “Carolina“, which he did.

The higher producer on the film was Kate Guinzburg (Michelle Pfeiffer’s former producing partner) and Martin Bregman (Al Pacino’s former partner), so we had a bunch of Veterans banding together to make this little romantic film about finding true love in the person that’s been standing in front of you all along…..your best friend. 


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Create boundaries and run your life like a strict executive

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Think of you and your comfort before any other. It’s not selfish to make sure you are taken care of first. Only when you’re taken care of can you focus on others. Boundaries need to be set in your life where you are strict and disciplined about who and what you invite into your soul’s auric home. These systematic restrictions also include what you’re putting into your body. What are you consuming that soon causes you to feel worse than you did before you consumed it. Sometimes the side effects are worse than the disease.

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Pay attention to what ultimately aggravates you and brings up negative feelings. You’re more than likely a super sensitive being, so something will negatively affect your welfare more than it might with someone who is less sensitive. This includes who you surround yourself with, what you consume, and what you read such as gossip or certain media. If your emotions are provoked into negativity whenever you read about the same topic, then stop seeking it out and reading it. Stop ingesting something that worsens your emotional state. Extricate someone out of your life that never brings anything positive to your world. Be the CEO of your life.


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Opportunities are lost due to fear because the ego ensures you remain paralyzed

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Fear is one of the souls worst enemies. It is the reason the planet is plagued with interpersonal and global battles. Fear is responsible for preventing you from achieving and conquering your purpose. Living in a space of fear is what blocks you from moving forward. Opportunities are lost due to fear because the ego ensures you remain paralyzed causing you to cower and hide from going after what you desire. Fear stalls humanity from evolving as witnessed in the centuries of evolution on the planet. While progress continues to be made in diminutive trickles, improvement still moves at a glacial rate thanks to humanities fear. It should not take hundreds of years to advance in the tiniest steps despite taking what we can get. This is due to individual fear resisting against changing their perception and awakening their consciousness. Finding the space of love and respect is challenging for the mediocre mind. Training every breathing organism to snap out of it takes an army of lights to do their part. Extricate fear from your aura and become unstoppable.


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Love is what kills energy like anger, sadness, fear, and worry.

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You come to the end of the road as you close the Earthly life chapter up realizing if you hadn’t at all before that it was always intended to be about love. Your soul was born from a source of love and you will die right back into that love. Love is the most powerful energy foundation that exists in all dimensions. The only thing that matters is love. The best way to channel energy positively is to remember all things connected to love. Love is what kills energy like anger, sadness, fear, and worry. Outstretch your arms, release any fears, and fall back into the arms of this love. Allow it to protect and guide you on your Earthly journey.


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