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Celebrating Gay Pride Month with Jagger’s Revolution!

Jagger's Revolution

For my awesome loyal gay readers…

JAGGER’S REVOLUTION

Jagger’s Revolution is a trashy beach read love story about a beach thug with hard coded rules of etiquette on how love and relationships should be. Jagger’s fight is one where he endures one bad date after another, while wondering if he’ll ever meet the right soul mate.

Throughout his dating dalliances and crushing love frustrations, he wrestles with the kind of gushing love crush one has as a teenager over Garth, the new lifeguard from Australia. He wrestles with his tormented feelings over this immediate silent connection with him and longs to get close. Jagger is surrounded and lifted up by his trustworthy brother in arms. They’re also known as his buddies for life who temper his unruly ego and aggression while giving him undying loyalty.  There’s the preppy book smart Troy, the high-powered executive Russell, and the sex loving and relationship hating Slade.

The semi-autobiographical Jagger’s Revolution contains hard biting dating wisdom and philosophical ideals threaded throughout the essays. This is surrounded by true accounts of being slighted by love while craving that perfect soul mate partnership.

 

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Reader Advisory Warning and Spoiler​:

“Jagger’s Revolution” is not a spiritual book, but it is a love story, which in itself is spiritual.   It is filled with empowering strong characters, most of who are gay.  This book was written back in 2005 during a time when publishers, agents, and film production companies refused to look at it due to the characters being gay.  Times have changed where it’s now pushed to the forefront.  This book is still banned in many countries and by many distributors including some in the U.S., which is unusual considering there is nothing controversial about a love story.  Over the years many of the distributors have finally been lifting that ban.

Jagger’s Revolution is a love story which contains some sexually explicit scenarios.  It is also not for those with a short attention span, since one needs to exercise patience when hoping to obtain your soul mate life partner.  This rules out quite a bit in this instant-me world that demand immediate gratification. Endure Jagger’s unpleasant dating situations that lead to nowhere before he eventually merges with his twin flame.  In traditional love stories, the voyeur is secretly aware that the two leads will end up together, but the fun is the build up and the journey one tolerates before that happens.

The endless notes I’ve received over the years on it have been across the board.  They picked up on the LOVE seeing no difference just because of the genders involved:
“This was intense, passionate, loving and dramatic.”
“Man was this a ride!  It had snippets of different genres, some romance, some erotica, some drama, some spiritual, and some suspense. Magical and heartbreaking in places.”
“I hate reading, but this was the first book I actually finished all the way through since High School.  It was so intense.”
“The way you describe some of these things had my heart pounding with emotion I didn’t know I had.”
“This book rocked my soul truly.  I loved it.”
“This sort of gave me a Rebel Without a Cause feel, but with a lot more penetration. That wasn’t a bad feeling.”
“I was impressed by the books eloquence and passion.  I need a love like this Jagger.”

 

ALSO AVAILABLE FOR THE ROMANTIC AT HEART

 

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Soul Mates and Twin FlamesSoul Mates and Twin Flames
Attracting in Love, Friendships and the Human Heart

Everyone is interested in love and relationships whether they like to admit it or not. Even the most hardened human soul has fantasized about having a love interest or a partner in crime. One of the main reasons we are all here is to love and to learn how to love. This is not just in intimate relationships, but with everyone we come into contact with.
In, Soul Mates and Twin Flames, author Kevin Hunter touches on the topic of love and relationships by passing on some of the messages and guidance he has received from his own Guides and Angels on the topic. Included in this informational book are some of the basics on Soul Mates, Twin Flames, Dysfunctional Relationships, Reconnecting with an Ex, Karmic Relationships, Friendships, Loneliness, working with the Romance Angels, Dating, Relationships, and more!

Twin Flame Soul Connections
Recognizing the Split Apart, the Truths and Myths of Twin Flames, ​Soul Love Connections, Soul Mates, and Karmic Relationships

Twin Flames have a shared ongoing sentiment and quest from the moment they’re a spark shooting out of God’s love that explodes into a blinding white fire that breaks apart causing one to be two, until two become one again, separate and whole, and back around again. Looking into the eyes of your Twin Flame is like looking into the eyes of God, because to know love is to know God.

When one thinks of a Soul Mate or Twin Flame, they might equate it to a passionate romantic relationship where you’re making love on a white sandy palm tree lined beach in paradise for the rest of your lives. This beautiful mythological notion has caused great turmoil in others who long for this person that fits the description of a lothario character in a romance novel. It is also an unrealistic and misguided interpretation of the Soul Mate or Twin Flame dynamic.

Twin Flame Soul Connections discusses and lists some of the various myths and truths surrounding the Twin Flames, and how to identify if you’ve come into contact with your Twin Flame, or if you know someone who has. The ultimate goal is not to find ones Twin Flame, but to awaken ones heart to love, and to work on becoming complete and whole as an individual soul through spiritual self-mastery, life lessons, growth, and raising your consciousness. Your soul’s life was born out of love and will die right back into that love.

 

 

Love Party of OneLove Party of One
Surviving the Pitfalls of Dating and Relationships in a Loveless World

Love Party of One examines the current love and dating world and what to expect for anyone struggling with being single and longing for love. Author, Kevin Hunter, is a love expert in love with all things surrounding the word love since he arrived on this planet. He has been out in the field studying the human condition since he was a teenager. This has included conducting social experiments as well as diving head first into the areas of love and dating in his own personal life.

One of the ways of surviving modern day dating and relationships in a loveless world is by armoring yourself with knowledge. This includes knowledge over the way things currently are. You’ve went to psychic readers, you’ve cast spells, you put yourself out there, did the vision boards, the crystal meditations, and other love rituals presented to you, but you still find you’re desperately wishing the person of your dreams was here already. You grow cynical as if it will never happen and that you just have to accept the fact that perhaps it’s not in the cards. Dating is a battlefield, be prepared to get dirty.

Kevin Hunter is best known for his endless array of spiritually based books. In Love Party of One, he answers some of the practical issues that readers posed regarding their personal conflicts in the current dating market. This is a non-denominational book with some light spiritual slang for anyone struggling as a single person in a loveless world. This is regardless of age, background, or whether you are straight, bi, gay, male, or female. The dating market is an equal opportunity killer and no soul is exempt from the challenges they face when it comes to love.

Some of the topics discussed surround technological dating, falling in love with someone you’ve never met, codependency, exes, communicating, compromise, sex, marriage, monogamy vs. adultery, ageism, and more!

The author of dozens of metaphysical, philosophical,
inspirational, spiritual, and enlightening books
available wherever books are sold.

Kevin Hunter Books

Kevin Hunter is the author of numerous spiritually based books attracting in loyal readers from all corners of the globe.  He is also a love expert, sage, and clairaudient, claircognizant, channeler residing along the coast of Southern California. 


Professional Bio:

Kevin Hunter is an author, love expert, and channeler.   The majority of his works are in the metaphysical genre.  His spiritually based empowerment and inspirational books include, Warrior of Light, Empowering Spirit Wisdom, Realm of the Wise One, Reaching for the Warrior Within, Darkness of Ego, Ignite Your Inner Life Force, Tarot Card Meanings, and Awaken Your Creative Spirit.

The warrior of light series of pocket books include, Spirit Guides and Angels, Soul Mates and Twin Flames, Divine Messages for Humanity, Raising Your Vibration, Connecting with the Archangels, Four Psychic Clair Sense, and The Seven Deadly Sins.

Kevin grew up in an abusive violent household, which propelled him downward into a sea of addictions to escape through alcohol, drugs, or anything else he could get his hands on. A lifelong sufferer of social anxiety and ADD, he managed to find the one positive thing that was always constant, which is a focused clear connection with his Spirit team on the other side. As a result, with their help he began writing out the many ways they’ve positively helped him throughout his life and how they can help those interested or ready for it. Kevin has been hailed to be a strong forceful wise one that is supremely direct. His divinely guided books are intended to inspire, enlighten, and empower those suffering or struggling in the physical world.

His others books include the dating handguide which is one half practical and one half spiritual, Love Party of One, the horror/drama, Paint the Silence, and the modern day trashy beach love story, Jagger’s Revolution. His books tend to have a strong male protagonist where he tackles a variety of subjects.

Kevin has been featured and discussed in three books by best selling spiritual author, Doreen Virtue called, The Miracles of Archangel Gabriel, Angel Detox, and Living Pain Free.

Pre-Author Professional Bio:

Kevin began work in the entertainment field weeks after his 23rd birthday joining one of Hollywood’s most respected actors at the height of her box office fame, Michelle Pfeiffer.   The sharp, film-literate worked as her development dude at her company, Via Rosa, where he read and provided coverage on potential projects searching for strong female driven characters-no victims.  He worked through the company’s development and film productions of One Fine DayA Thousand Acres, and The Deep End of the Ocean.

After a number of years, Pfeiffer dissolved her company, and Kevin made an immediate move into coordinating Film Productions for some of the major Hollywood studios.   With a strong work ethic, he continued to hammer his name into stone in the film industry working with some highly well known talent, producers, and directors while adding to a mounting list of production credits.

Some of his other film work credits includes Antonio Bandera’s directorial debut of, Crazy in Alabama, Via Rosa’s Original Sin with Angelina Jolie and Antonio Banderas, The Perfect Storm with George Clooney and Mark Wahlberg, Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, and Dr. Dolittle 2 with Eddie Murphy. He subsequently reunited with Pfeiffer’s ex-producing partner, Kate Guinzburg, at her short-lived company with veteran Producer, Martin Bregman (Scarface, Serpico), to assist in bringing the Julia Stiles and Shirley MacLaine film Carolina through development and production.

After  years of working on back to back films, Kevin transitioned into work as an author as he entered his 30’s and beyond.   He started out writing essays about love, dating, relationships, and sex before primarily becoming a spiritual author and teacher.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Thousands of Rose Petals, Thousands of Lights on Valentine’s Day

Kevin Hunter's photo.

Saint Valentine is the patron saint of love and happy relationship connections. Today when others think of Valentine’s Day, they think of Hallmark marketing ventures with chocolates, roses, and champagne. Regardless, love should be exuded full time around the clock and not just on Valentines Day.

 

Over the course of entertainment history, there have been love songs recorded, romantic movies filmed, and books written about having a secure, loving, and passionate relationship. Someone felt those things, craved it, experienced it firsthand, or witnessed it in others. Love is a universal need and desire. It is your soul’s innate nature to express, even if you lost the ability to operate from that space. You can find that space again because the love you were born with never leaves. You just bury it beneath layers of cement created by your current life experiences. Valentine’s Day is a reminder to bring that love back out. 

“Soul Mates & Twin Flames”

Astrologically: The energy influencing the planet through Monday is a bit contradictory. It is heavily surrounding planet Mars (sex drive), Mercury (communication), Jupiter (seeing the big picture), and Saturn (setbacks/delays). There is restlessness and a desire for a deeper connection whether you’re single, dating, or already in a relationship. Communication and the grey matter trumps a physical attraction. You want the whole package. Although stronger communication is desired right now, there may be some delays in getting that communication. The energy for the next few days is about correcting anything that needs to be adjusted, rather than dwelling on it. This includes what you desire in all connections and not just romantic ones.

Kevin Hunter's photo.

Cupid, draw back your bow and let your arrow go. Whether you’re in a relationship, single, or dating, I am your Valentine. Even if you’re married I don’t care. I’m filling in for twenty-four hours as a temporary Knight before I’m on my way. This is one of my jobs and being fired is not in my vocabulary. Valentine’s Day has turned into a silly holiday with teddy bears, balloons, and chocolates. The positives are it’s a reminder to those who don’t know how to love. It’s a reminder to those who are crippled when it comes to relationships. 

Jagger's Revolution by Kevin Hunter

“Jagger’s Revolution”

Valentine’s Day is everyday around the clock with whoever I’m with. I never needed a day to remind me of that. Born feeling love intensely every second to the point where it has become both a dangerous addiction and overwhelmingly intoxicating like Don Juan himself. My love life has been like a romantic novel with the endless highs, lows, joys, and sorrows that accompany that. The times I’ve been in between relationships has stunned others. Someone said to me once, “I understand your demanding life, but with your character and intelligence, you should always have a companion, like a cute trophy maybe.” Yeah, like Hugh Hefner. I’ll walk into the party with my signature boxers, combat boots, sunglasses, and bathrobe loosely tied and flanked with an entourage of trophies.  Valentine. ♥

~  Kevin Hunter
www.kevin-hunter.com

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.


Books for Valentine’s Day by Kevin Hunter; Soul Mates and Twin Flames; Jagger’s Revolution

The only thing that matters in the end is love.  It is the reason all are here.   Valentine’s Day is a reminder for those who need to remember about the love.  Now available in Paperback and Kindle for Valentine’s Day is “Soul Mates and Twin Flames” as well as “Jagger’s Revolution”.  Both book are immersed in love for your enjoyment.

“Soul Mates and Twin Flames” is rated G for all ages and backgrounds.  However, “Jagger’s Revolution” is rated R and not for the easily offended.   The material is sexually graphic in some places.


 

Soul Mates and Twin Flames

Attracting in Love, Friendships and the Human Heart

Everyone is interested in love and relationships whether they like to admit it or not. Even the most hardened human soul has fantasized about having a love interest or a partner in crime. One of the main reasons we are all here is to love and to learn how to love. This is not just in intimate relationships, but with everyone we come into contact with. 
In, Soul Mates and Twin Flames: Attracting in Love, Friendships and the Human Heart, author Kevin Hunter touches on the topic of love and relationships by passing on some of the messages and guidance he has received from his own Guides and Angels on the topic. Included in this informational book are some of the basics on, Soul Mates, Twin Flames, Dysfunctional Relationships, Reconnecting with an Ex, Karmic Relationships, Friendships, Loneliness, working with the Romance Angels, Dating, Relationships and more!

                 

 


Jagger’s Revolution

Jagger’s Revolution is a love story about a strong, bohemian, beach thug with hard coded rules of etiquette on how love and relationships should be.  Jagger’s fight is one where he endures one bad date after another, while wondering if he’ll ever meet the right soul mate.  Throughout his dating dalliances and crushing love frustrations, he wrestles with the kind of gushing love crush one has as a teenager over Garth, the new lifeguard from Australia. He wrestles with an immediate silent connection with him and longs to get close.

Jagger is surrounded and prompted up by his trustworthy brother in arms. They’re also known as his buddies for life who temper his unruly ego and aggression while giving him undying loyalty. There’s the preppy book smart Troy, the high-powered executive, Russell, and the sex loving and relationship hating Slade.

Jagger’s Revolution contains hard biting dating wisdom and ideals threaded throughout the essays. This is surrounded by true accounts of being slighted by love while craving a perfect soul mate partnership.

                 

Reader Advisory Warning and Spoiler: Jagger’s Revolution is a love story which contains some sexually explicit scenarios. It is not for those with a short attention span, since one needs to exercise patience when hoping to obtain your soul mate life partner. This rules out quite a bit in this “instant me” world who demand immediate gratification. One needs to endure Jagger’s unpleasant dating situations that lead nowhere, before he eventually merges with his twin flame. In traditional love stories, the voyeur is secretly aware that the two leads will end up together, but the fun is the build up and the journey one tolerates before that happens.

The semi-autobiographical essays include: The High School Episode with Billy, Natasha: The Escort Chick, as well as Sage and The Vegas Stripper Club. Jagger finds exhaustion with several dating entanglements that includes: Caden: the Malibu Cobra, the Skaterboy, The Englishman and The Professor.

What readers have said:

“This book rocked my soul truly. I loved it.”

“Wow! I just read “Jagger’s Revolution”. Hot! Yum! It’s almost like a jerk off reading.”

“I hate reading, but this was the first book I actually finished all the way through since High School. It was great.”

“It is hot over here and that book of yours only inflames things more.”

“Jagger’s Revolution was a beautiful story.”

“This book was making me moist. I had to put it down because I was on a plane. It was embarrassing.”

“I finished reading Jagger’s Revolution. I almost felt guilty reading some of it. I was trying to come at it from an analytical perspective, but I couldn’t help but become secretly aroused by Jagger and his friends.”

“This book sort of gave me a ‘Rebel Without a Cause” feel, but with a lot more penetration. That wasn’t a bad feeling.”

“Billy and Jagger. Hot scene. I had visuals.”

“Was impressed by the books eloquence and passion.”

Author’s Note:

“Just in time for Valentine’s Day this Sunday!  My first official book, the erotic beach read, “Jagger’s Revolution”.  This is a book that has had its share of controversy. There are countries that ban it. Meaning if someone in that country is caught with it, they could be fined, jailed, tortured, and yes even executed. You think your life is so tough. The world is not that evolved.

The book is 85% true and 15% exaggerated. Most of the essays are true and really did happen from the Drug scenarios to the Las Vegas stuff. You name it in the book and it likely happened in some form. Jagger’s three main friends were composites of my own friends. Most of the dialogue is all real and were words said in my circle.

Garth, the main love interest, was based on three of my friends – two straight, one gay. One of the three is Australian. I pulled out what I felt to be their best chivalrous qualities and immersed them into this character. It wasn’t hard since all of them exude that nature full time. I spent most of yesterday on the beach with one of them actually. Like Garth, this one was also a lifeguard for many years.

All of the main characters are still in my life. They were aware they were incorporated into the book before it came out ten years ago. I pre-warned everybody assuring them that they were treated like Kings in it. They were excited to see themselves in print in some form and definitely did not hold back on the gloating. They are just as cocky as I am. 🙂

The book has reached all the way to India where a female fan/reader sent me a photo recently holding the book on her lap. She understood the deeper meaning and point of the book, which is the journey to that all encompassing transcendent love that is also expressed through the physical. A pure union in all ways emotionally, spiritually, sexually.

In part of her message to me she wrote, “Had a two hour flight. I read the last few chapters of Garth and Jagger’s love story and sexual chemistry! OMG and that romantic letter by Garth to Jagger. I was crying the last 30 mins of the flight craving for love. Felt so so romantic after so long.”

Love has to be grand for me. It’s got to be on all levels or forget it. You’re either 100% in this or get out. Much like the Shania Twain song, “If you’re not in it for love, I’m out of here.”

~  Kevin Hunter
www.kevin-hunter.com

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.


Let’s Hear Your Sexual Fantasies Both Real and Imagined

Kevin Hunter's photo.One of my many projects in development is a book on your sexual fantasies both real and imagined. This is part study and part entertainment. If you’re feeling fearless, then private message me your stories of any length or email me at kevinsbeach@aol.com. Leave nothing out.  Don’t be afraid to be blunt or say certain words.

If I decide to use any part of it, it will be used anonymously if at all. The book also may or may not come to light. Like films in development, sometimes these projects sit on a shelf collecting dust for years and never fully get lift off.

I’ve sent out casting calls and have been interviewing others over the last number of months on the side surrounding this project. I have been disappointed with some of what I’ve been receiving. Technology and the rise in a lack of meaningful personal connections has killed ones imagination resorting to sound bites that bore me into a coma. It’s like talking to styrofoam. I’d rather scratch my face to death.

If that’s the case, the book may end up surrounding my own stories. Although the stuff I’ve found to be interesting is that many have talked about their fantasies surrounding a gender they normally aren’t primarily attracted to.  This is from hetero married or committed men and women.

 

~  Kevin Hunter
www.kevin-hunter.com

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.


Kevin Hunter Books Now Available On iTunes Apple

I’m thrilled to announce that twelve books from my catalog have been launched on iTunes Apple this week.

https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/kevin-hunter/id39335681

 

My Mark Wahlberg story – What He’s Really Like

For those Hollywood fans who love to read or hear about what it’s like working on a movie set or with well known talent. Here’s my Mark Wahlberg story. I haven’t shared any of these stories until recently.  This was after discovering how many wanted to know what it’s like or how someone was like.  Before I became an author, I started out in the film business.  Click here or on the photo to read some of my behind the scenes tidbits on working with Mark Wahlberg on “The Perfect Storm” back in 1999.

Click photo to read some of my behind the scenes tidbits on working with Mark Wahlberg on “The Perfect Storm” back in 1999.

 

~  Kevin Hunter

www.kevin-hunter.com

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.


The content in the books, “Warrior of Light” and “Empowering Spirit Wisdom” is
available in the Warrior of Light series of mini-books:

The Love Crush. Jagger wrestles with the kind of gushing love crush one has as a teenager over Garth, the new lifeguard from Australia

Jagger’s Revolution is a love story about a strong, bohemian, beach thug with hard coded rules of etiquette on how love and relationships should be. Jagger’s fight is one where he endures one bad date after another, while wondering if he’ll ever meet the right soul mate. Throughout his dating dalliances and crushing love frustrations, he wrestles with the kind of gushing love crush one has as a teenager over Garth, the new lifeguard from Australia. He wrestles with an immediate silent connection with him and longs to get close.

Jagger is surrounded and prompted up by his trustworthy brother in arms. They’re also known as his buddies for life who temper his unruly ego and aggression while giving him undying loyalty. There’s the preppy book smart Troy, the high-powered executive, Russell, and the sex loving and relationship hating Slade.

Jagger’s Revolution contains hard biting dating wisdom and ideals threaded throughout the essays. This is surrounded by true accounts of being slighted by love while craving a perfect soul mate partnership.

Reader Advisory Warning and Spoiler: Jagger’s Revolution is a love story which contains some sexually explicit scenarios. It is not for those with a short attention span, since one needs to exercise patience when hoping to obtain your soul mate life partner. This rules out quite a bit in this “instant me” world who demand immediate gratification. One needs to endure Jagger’s unpleasant dating situations that lead nowhere, before he eventually merges with his twin flame. In traditional love stories, the voyeur is secretly aware that the two leads will end up together, but the fun is the build up and the journey one tolerates before that happens.

The semi-autobiographical essays include: The High School Episode with Billy, Natasha: The Escort Chick, as well as Sage and The Vegas Stripper Club. Jagger finds exhaustion with several dating entanglements that includes: Caden: the Malibu Cobra, the Skaterboy, The Englishman and The Professor.

The book “Jagger’s Revolution” has been banned through the years for being too racy in some sections.   It is part of the long list of banned books or banned and challenged books in our Earth’s history.  Jagger’s Revolution is considered too hot and too idealistic for some limited views.  Jagger’s Revolution is ahead of its time.  This book is now available in paperback and kindle.  If you leave a positive review, then you will receive another Kevin Hunter book of your choice for free.  Email kevinsbeach@aol.com with the link to that review, the Kevin Hunter book you’d like, along with your shipping address”

What readers have said:

“This book rocked my soul truly. I loved it.”

“Wow! I just read “Jagger’s Revolution”. Hot! Yum! It’s almost like a jerk off reading.”

“I hate reading, but this was the first book I actually finished all the way through since High School. It was great.”

“It is hot over here and that book of yours only inflames things more.”

“Jagger’s Revolution was a beautiful story.”

“This book was making me moist. I had to put it down because I was on a plane. It was embarrassing.”

“I finished reading Jagger’s Revolution. I almost felt guilty reading some of it. I was trying to come at it from an analytical perspective, but I couldn’t help but become secretly aroused by Jagger and his friends.”

“This book sort of gave me a ‘Rebel Without a Cause” feel, but with a lot more penetration. That wasn’t a bad feeling.”

“Billy and Jagger. Hot scene. I had visuals.”

“Was impressed by the books eloquence and passion.”

~  Kevin Hunter

www.kevin-hunter.com

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

The content in the books, “Warrior of Light” and “Empowering Spirit Wisdom” is
available in the Warrior of Light series of mini-books:

Ask Jagger: Guy on Grindr is Difficult to Make Plans With

Dear Jagger,

I met up with this guy a few weeks ago via grindr. It was just a casual encounter, but somehow I feel like I’m developing feelings for him. I’ve been trying to hang out with him again, not just for a hookup, but it hasn’t happened yet. He will text back and hold a conversation but he’s always too busy to do anything. I’m starting to wonder if he’s avoiding me or not interested. It’s a strange situation since I’m bisexual and haven’t had strong feelings for a male before, and he’s not completely sure whether he is gay or not. I’m not sure how to tell him I want to get to know him more without coming on too strong. I’m also wondering if I should ask him if he wants me to stop contacting him because he’s been very difficult to make plans with. 
 
Sam

Dear Sam,

From the timeline when your email was sent and in estimating when you connected with this guy, this was around Mid-March during the Mercury Retrograde phase.  Everyone is unavailable and unable to pin down a date to connect during that transit.  Now that we are passed all of that I’m curious to know if he’s come around as the probability is likely or he that he would have just fallen to the wayside.

All planetary talk aside:

You both have a common thread going on at this juncture in your lives.  You are both in an exploring phase testing the waters to find out what it is you both want and are attracted to.

It can be difficult to resist a physical connection with someone you have just met, but typically when that is how a relationship starts that’s usually where it ends.  There are exceptions to that rule of course, but I don’t speak in specifics.

You have been meeting more than half way attempting to meet with him again.  He is not being responsive so the best thing to do would be to back off.  Let him know you’re interested in hanging out instead of going out, but that you are going to leave the ball in his court.  Let him also know that if he’s interested in hanging out, then to hit you up.  I would not imply that you want to go out on a date as that will scare him off.  With this one you’ll have to ease him in slowly as if he’s just a friend.  You’ll have a chance to get to know him better on a friend basis if he agrees.  When someone is really interested in you, then they are going to let you know.  Even if they are too busy, they will suggest something like, “This is a busy week, but I am available next week on Tuesday and would love to do get together.”

Grindr can be a great way to meet people, but many people on there may not have the relationship seeking intentions that you might have.  It’s not impossible, but unfortunately the odds are slim.  The majority of those guys tend to be looking to get it on more than anything else.  The connections are typically short lived.

Jagger

If you have a question you’d like answered specifically around dating, relationships, love or any other pressing issue then shoot an email to “Ask Jagger” at dudelit@gmail.com  Be sure to leave certain information that you feel applies to your case whether you’re straight, gay, male or female.  Your name will not be used unless you approve.

All advice and information is intended as a general guide and for entertainment purposes only.   It should not be a replacement for treatment.

More Ask Jagger columns here

 

Valentine’s Day Trashy Beach Read; Erotic Love and Relationships. Jagger’s Revolution.

Jagger’s Revolution is the book that makes Valentine’s Day everyday whether you are single, dating or in a relationship and love…love.

Jagger’s Revolution
Authored by Kevin Hunter

Jagger’s Revolution is a modern day erotic love story about a tough beach thug on a hunt to conquer his love crush.  Take a journey with Jagger through his dating dalliances and crushing love frustrations.  He is surrounded by his colorful friends: the preppy book smart Troy, the high powered executive, Russell and the sex loving and relationship hating Slade.

Dive into Jagger’s early years in a series of autobiographical essays revolving around the author’s love life including: The Five Year Old Incident, The High School Episode with Billy, Natasha: The Escort Chick, The Drug Conquest, Sage and The Vegas Stripper Club and Jagger’s Break as a Sex Columnist.  Jagger is the alter ego of the author and he finds exhaustion with several dating entanglements that includes: Caden: the Malibu Cobra, the Skaterboy, The Englishman and The Professor.

All throughout his love, dating and sex scenarios, Jagger experiences the kind of crush and love one has as a teenager over Garth, the dreamboat lifeguard from Australia with the killer smile who he keeps running into in passing on the beach and chalking it up to fate.  He wrestles with an immediate silent connection with him and longs to get close. 

Jagger’s Revolution is a love story with hard biting dating wisdom surrounded by true accounts of being slighted by love while craving for that perfect mate.  Jagger is a no-nonsense truth teller aiming for a hot, romantic and erotic climax filled with a passionate, soulful love that lasts a lifetime.   If he develops the courage to go for it, then he just might get his wish with his lifeguard dude in the end.  Explicit Material

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