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Mistreatment is considered one of the most distasteful quality traits for Spirit to witness in humankind

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The #1 trait that Spirit doesn’t like to see is someone mistreating or disrespecting another person in any form. This means a certain amount of decorum and etiquette is something they prize. Mistreatment is considered one of the most distasteful quality traits for God to witness. Sadly that’s also the top trait that is displayed on the planet by humankind around the clock.

There are different shades of mistreatment and disrespect that exist. Someone treated you unkindly and the natural reaction is to be reactive or defensive, so you lash out in retaliation. There’s also that fine line between how far you intend to go with mistreating another person to deciding to limit your reactions to slights on your ego by choosing your battles wisely and selectively.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
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Bringing Closure to the Previous Chapter; Saying Hello to a Brand New Book!

 


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What’s been going on and where have I been lately?  Those are the big questions that people keeping throwing at me.   It seems to them I’ve been AWOL, unavailable, unresponsive, and not posting as much as usual.   I keep hearing, “Is everything okay?  It’s like you disappeared.”   I appreciate all of the outpouring messages of concern.  Was a little surprised as it never occurred to me that so many people were interested or wondering what happened.   I never think of myself on or off the radar.  I do my work and live my life without revealing all that much of the day to day happenings.  It’s been a busy season full of endings and beginnings, tons of activity brewing behind the scenes.

Over the holidays, one friend gave me a huge Archangel Michael statue, while another gave me this large professional electronic dart board. The interesting dichotomy of those gifts reveal two of the many distinct personalities within me. On the one hand you have the God preaching 🙏 soul enhancing spiritualist surrounded by the Archangel Michael, and on the other hand, I turn into a beer 🍺drinking, sailor cursing, dart 🎯 throwing, frat boy.

Weed is legal in California now, so I smell it everywhere I go.  Behind me in the beach photo above unseen are two surfers toking away no longer hiding it as their plant wafts around me in a hug.

I’m known to be somewhat difficult, displaying extreme sides within the span of ten minutes.  You never know what you’re going to get.  I’m a creative artist and with that comes the temperament expected.   On one day I’m the social butterfly and life of the party, or as some friends branded me, “the party favor”, but then on the other you have the withdrawn, distant, moody, cold, and blunt chap who prefers you don’t talk to me unless spoken to.

Someone said to me recently, “What a range of emotions.  You don’t bottle up emotions do you?”

I said, “I’m a writer, so I have a healthy outlet for pent up repression.”

Speaking of which, I have some exciting books coming out this year. It’s been a year since my last one, so that’s also added to the concern others had.   There were back to back books for years, then I dropped out of sight.   The truth is I’ve been super busy lately.   The first of the next batch of books is coming this March.   I’m excited to share the new material.  Stay tuned!

On the other front, it’s been a year of loss, changes, closure, and the ending of many chapters.  This is essential in order to open up the door to bright new circumstances being prepped on the horizon.

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This past Fall of 2017 has been bathed in loss, but loss is an ending that opens doors to new beginnings. Close ones moved away, people passed away around me, chapters wrapped themselves up.  One friend of mine passed away at age 27. He had a seizure and choked on his own vomit and ended up in a coma before the plug was pulled. Two weeks later my friend producer, Kate Guinzburg (pictured), passed away with Ovarian Cancer at age 60.

The two photos on the right I took in 2002 on a little film I associate produced called, “Carolina”, which was financed by the infamous Harvey Weinstein. On the right is producer, Kate, hanging out on set with one of our actresses, Julia Stiles on the left.

Kate was one of the top main people behind the scenes that was responsible for me in a major way all throughout my 20’s. She was actress Michelle Pfeiffer’s best friend for 32 years and her producing partner for their female driven production company Via Rosa for ten years. Six years into their private company, they took a major risk and invited one more person to join their team. Me. This 23 year old rebellious, back talking, drug taking, alcohol drinking, sailor cursing, aggressive, dark, male punk infiltrating into their three women based estrogen filled world. The company was just the four of us until Michelle decided to disband it to go into semi-retirement. Kate, Michelle, and Mary looked at me as their new little brother they took under their wing and molded into the powerhouse I would eventually become.

Kate and Michelle used to have this saying that if either of them became destitute, that they could live on the other ones living room couch. Although, Kate joked that it was unlikely to happen to Michelle. On a professional level, Pfeiffer has made the Hollywood studios more than $2 billion by starring in over 61 films since the 1980’s. Kate watched her best friend rapidly rise the ranks in the Entertainment business where she became public domain. By the time, I walked into their world Michelle was at the height of her game as one of the top 5 most bankable in-demand actress at the time.

Michelle has personally continued to process this death of her best friend, but luckily has been so absorbed with a heavy work load again that it’s helped divert the focus. The picture of Michelle featured in this post was taken the day that Kate passed away. She was forced to put on the professional face, and pretend smile for the cameras, as she attended the Emmy’s due to being nominated for her performance along with Robert DeNiro for HBO’s “The Wizard of Lies”.

Following that, she had to quickly dive into daily press for her film, “Mother!”, which had just come out, and then was immediately scheduled to doing media press for her next film, “Murder on the Orient Express”, then jumped to continue filming for Marvel’s upcoming blockbuster superhero action flick, “The Ant and the Wasp”. She’s been working non-stop in a haze since the death. We’ve all been working to make our peace with Kate’s transition into the spirit world, reminiscing about the good times we had with her, and the important contributions she made for us personally. It was Kate that set Michelle up on a blind date with her current husband of 24 years, David E. Kelley.

 


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Walking into a bright new year. Make everyday count regardless if it’s a new year or not. Wishing you love and blessings.

Walking away from 2017 and into a bright new year.  As always, make everyday count regardless if it’s a new year or not.  Wishing you love and blessings.

 

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I’ve always felt at home and been comfortable being around Jesus. It feels like being f*cked to death by a thousand pillows.  Don’t worry he doesn’t care about my filthy mouth, especially when I’m lost in prayer. 🙏  Because what matters is what is in your heart.

Message?  What did God say?
“Fear not, because I am with you. ❤️”.

There’s nothing you can’t do when you’ve got Jesus in your house.

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Glory to the newborn King. 🙏

One of the messages Jesus said was that even just a tiny bit of faith that you can spare will move mountains.

“Nothing would be impossible.”


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

“Split” and “Mother!” – Two of my favorite films this past year. James McAvoy, Michelle Pfeiffer, Jennifer Lawrence, Javier Bardem, Anya Taylor-Joy.

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Two of my favorite films this year were, “Split” and “Mother!” I’ve always been drawn to darker material that the general public has a harder time digesting. You could never accuse me of following the herd. That would require submitting to a victimized position, which isn’t alluring to me. What these two films have in common is they don’t withhold. They’re both dark, radical, psychological, complicated, deep and intense in its ambiance and messages. All of which are the skin I’m most comfortable in.

Split” does a terrific job at focusing on someone with Dissociative Identity Disorder. It takes that to the extreme and ultimately the supernatural answering the question to, “What if?” James McAvoy, who should be nominated, brilliantly plays 9 of the 23 split personalities his character Kevin has due to massive child abuse that caused his main identity to splinter and dissociate. One of his identities that has taken over Kevin is Dennis. Dennis kidnaps three teenage girls from a party with the intention that they will be served as sacred food to one of Kevin’s more monstrous identities yet to emerge.

Anya Taylor-Joy plays Carrey, the outcast teen who had been invited to the teen party out of pity. She’s the heroine that befriends some of the identities that assumes Kevin’s body with the hopes of being let go, while the other superficial two teens cower weakly in the corner of the cellar dungeon their captive holds them in.

In a heart pounding chase scene, the monstrous identity in Kevin corners Carrey intending to sacrifice her. He notices the cut marks all over her body realizing that she is like him and was subjected to heinous child abuse herself, which we see through flashbacks. Seeing that she is not like the others, he releases her from his prison seeing her as authentic and pure. Both James and Anya just wrapped filming an exciting sequel to this called, “Glass”, which will also stars Bruce Willis and Samuel Jackson.

Mother!’ was one of the most claustrophobic films this year causing enormous backlash and praise dividing film goers from those who loved it and those that hated it. “Mother!” is an allegory intended to reveal the violent destruction that is humanity and what humankind has and is perpetually doing to its home planet.

Javier Bardem symbollically plays, “God”, Jennifer Lawrence is “Mother Earth”, and Ed Harris and Michelle Pfeiffer are “Adam and Eve”. This angry, chaotic, dark film is an assault to all the senses that it requires more than one viewing.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

The Divine loves all souls equally and no one is ignored even when it feels that way

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The Divine loves all souls equally and no one is ever ignored even when it feels that way. To Heaven, Earthly life is a blip on the radar, a millisecond compared to eternity. The perspective Spirit has is greater than imagined by the human mind. Experiencing that great love feeling from the Divine begins by increasing your faith, having regular daily prayer, or conversations with God. Even if it feels like you’re talking to no one, you are heard and responded to at some point. This is where you pick up on the messages and guidance immediately or further down the line. Sometimes you have to endure a rough patch before the light is shown. At that moment when the light appears, you realize why you were kept in a situation longer than you intended to be, and then it suddenly all makes sense.

 


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
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Never give up, never lose faith, and keep forging on fearlessly.

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Prayer is intended to help you move away from worry and fear. You invalidate a prayer when you continue to worry afterwards. The worry tells Spirit that you don’t trust their intervention and assistance and so you will continue to worry as a backup plan in case God doesn’t come through. When you receive repeated nudges after the prayer to take action on something, then take action.

 

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Ironic that one of the few things standing after one of the several California wildfires ripped through it is a Jesus statue and cross.   I’m a couple of miles from the Skirball Fire, so yes I have seen it since it’s hard to miss.

On a metaphysical level, tons of emotional healing of past wounds and the cleansing and clearing of toxins is happening this month. This is a good time to release and purify your soul, so that you can begin with a clean vibrant slate moving into 2018.

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Never give up, never lose faith, and keep forging on fearlessly.

 


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

December Fifth was intended to be an important date. Ironic it ended up being a wildfire disaster.

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Back in October, my Spirit team circled the date December 5th informing me that something significant was going to happen that I understood to be good or beneficial. Cut to this week and the only significant event were the wildfires spreading at an accelerated rate that night due to the 70 mph desert winds distributing it into my territory. The Night the Lights Went Out in Georgia.

The images here taken Wednesday are 3 miles from where I am, but I’m fine, however the wildfires are massive enough prompting over 200,000 people to evacuate. Been here my entire life and never seen the yearly fires grow to this height before. Messages have been pouring in from around the world since I seem to have disappeared lately, which feels ominous.

It was initially perplexing as to why my team would think that this was a beneficial event. You’ll have to dive deeper beneath the surface to figure it out. Put your phones and your social media down, detach from the bullshit, and meditate on it. One of God’s favorite things is fire, from his words are like fire, to his power is like fire, his eyes are like fire, the Archangel Nathaniel moves about in a blaze of fire, to my soul emerged out of a blaze of fire, and on and on.

To offer perspective as to how large this is, I’m a few miles from one of them, but 66 miles (1 hour) away my youngest sister is in the middle of one of the other major fires that caused a power outage among other things. That’s how long and wide the beast is. Tuesday, I smelled smoke all day, and when I woke up Wednesday everything was ablaze in apocalyptic splendor. Now it’s the calm before the storm, but I can feel it rumbling and brewing in the belly, so don’t crack open that bottle of champagne yet.

 

Thank you, Nora, for offering the word, “Purification, and to Lilly for, “Alchemy”, both of which are in the vicinity of much that is taking place.  And to Lance regarding the “renewal”.  And to Edna as well for pointing out the 66 and Beast in this post, both of which weren’t intentional, or was it subconsciously, but something to ponder on.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Getting riled up over sensational gossip media pieces does nothing to help anybody.

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Some tend to get angrily riled up over something a public figure said or did in the media. This does nothing to change that person and it doesn’t resolve anything. You don’t know them and you’re not in their house having a conversation with them. Instead your aura marinates in that toxic cesspool energy that doesn’t hurt the target. It hurts you and your well-being, while simultaneously blocking heavenly spirit guidance from coming in.

This dark energy flows into the cells of your body and gets lodged in there when improperly channeled. If that anger is a daily pattern or left unchecked, then it can manifest into something more harmful such as a breeding ground for future diseases and health issues. When you’re in the epicenter of that developed hurricane of toxicity forming in and around you due to your own words, feelings, and thoughts, then it’s difficult to be aware that you are. Dark energy blinds you to the truth. When one falls into the deep seed of repetitive anger, they are out of their minds, and oblivious to how far down the rabbit hole they’ve fallen. They later realize that it’s been one thing after another going wrong in their life and unaware of how or why it grew at such an astronomical rate.

The best way to counteract this is by avoiding the media. Stop seeking out salacious top trending headlines designed to attract, entice, and lure you in. The ego loves drama because it’s designed to get you caught in its web preventing you from seeking out more positive activities to focus on. Using discernment and good judgment over what is worth knowing and what is something that is out of your hands.

There are a number of people around me who don’t get involved in gossip or media to the point that they really don’t know what everyone is arguing about, and they like it that way. Unless your job is a position that requires you to correct certain issues you’re passionate about, then there is no benefit to joining in with the crowd to argue about the latest dramatic news story. You’re either preaching to the choir or you’re not. The ones who don’t agree won’t be swayed so it’s a time waster.

100% of the time what people are arguing and gossiping about is forgotten within 1-3 days as another enticing headline flies to the top of the list to attract in their focus. It can take practice and enormous willpower to not be tempted to read certain types of articles. That practice includes immediately knowing whether something is a gossip piece or is an objective balanced news piece focused on straight neutral reporting. If everytime you get riled up over pieces put up by a particular news source, then it’s time to step away from that source for awhile in order to get re-centered and re-directed on more important priorities that will ultimately bring you joy and peace.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
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Should I unfriend or block my ex on social media?

Should I unfriend or block my ex on social media?

Should you unfriend or block your ex on social media? That’s a question I’ve been receiving in abundance over the years. What should you do?

The #1 rule to do if an ex broke up with you is to stop contacting them. Arguing, pleading, or crying is not going to make them change their mind. If someone chose to leave you, then they already had it in their mind to do so long before they officially did it.   If you were the one that was left, then that should wake you up to say, “Wait a minute, you don’t like me?   You don’t want to be with me? Well, that just killed my erection.” It should be a turn off when someone decides they no longer want to be with you. Unfortunately, for some that’s easier said then done. There are numerous reasons as to why someone chooses to leave you, so we’ll stick with generalities.

A part of you might feel like there is a chance that you could get back together with your ex.   Maybe the break up was premature or there were some minor issues that broke it up where the possibility of reconcilement is not an outlandish notion.   Grounds for firing and eliminating them would be repetitive abuse of any kind or cheating, but if neither of those was the cause for break up, then you might feel there is a chance you could get back together at a later date.

If you have zero feelings for your ex and have no interest in ever getting back together with them, but you don’t hate them, then it’s harmless to keep them on your social media page. You won’t be bothered seeing their posts or seeing them post photos of them with new lovers should that happen eventually. If you’re not interested in getting your ex back, then it doesn’t matter if you leave them on your social media account or not.

For those that want their ex back, then the first answer is to unfriend them. Part of not contacting them means they’re not constantly in your face everytime you log into your social media account. You might even choose to go so far as to block them, so you can’t get into a game where they are trying to re-add you. When someone chooses to leave you, then that should be a turn off. If you still feel there is the possibility of rekindling the flame, then you need to not contact them period ever.   If they can’t see you, then there is a greater possibility of them missing you and realizing where did he/she go and what have I done?

Some people want to keep their exes on their page for a few reasons. One is that they fear if they unfriend or block them, then the ex will forget about them.   That is not likely to happen if someone felt strong intense love feelings about you at one point. The love may fade for a bit, but deep love never really goes away even if both people have broken up and carried on with new separate lives.

The second reason that some want to keep the ex on their page is to get the ex riled up by posting great posts or photos of you moving on in life and having a great time without them. This will make them wonder and potentially make them jealous. The flipside is you may also see them doing the same thing. They may put up posts showing what a great time they’re having as a single person. You might see them post photos of themselves with other potential love interests, or they’ll even change their status to ‘in a relationship’. If you know that you will not get upset or fly into a rage at them over seeing those posts, then it’s safe to keep them on your page. But if you know that you won’t be able to control yourself should you potentially see something that upsetting, then unfriend the ex.

One of the nice features of Facebook specifically is that if you don’t want to unfriend someone for whatever reason, you are given the option to unfollow them or you can hide their posts. There is a button in the upper right hand corner that allows you to hide someone’s posts. This shows their posts to you infrequently or not at all for a lengthy period of time. The person you do that to will not know you’ve done that and they will still remain in your friends list. What that also means is they will rarely if ever see your posts either.

You may choose to take no action at all and just leave them on your social media account knowing that you might consider getting back together with them at a later date if that becomes an option. This will not prevent your ex from choosing to hide your posts, unfollow you, or unfriend, and possibly block you. There could be three potential reasons as to why they might have done that. Two of those reasons might be concerning, while the third reason works in your favor.

If they choose to hide your posts, unfollow, unfriend, or block you, then that’s because they’re officially done with you, are moving on, and want no contact with you. The other reason is they don’t want to have to worry about what they’re posting and if it will upset you. The third reason, which is more in your favor in this case, is that they’ve done that because it’s too painful to have you in front of them all the time on social media since they still have deep intense feelings for you. Or they don’t want to get emotionally upset if you post something that could rile them up.   Of course there is no real way to know which one of those is the reason they would’ve done that. All you can do is stand back, disappear, go on with life, and let time pass to see what ends up transpiring as a result or not.

Do not check out your exes social media page. Stay away from their page, no matter how tempted you are to see what’s going on.  Also, don’t like and especially do not comment on their posts.  Do the best you can to ignore the posts and scroll past it on your wall.  I know you may have a tough time following that, but do the best you can.  Checking out your exes page causes psychological distress, lowers your vibration, and tampers with your well-being. The distress expands the more you still want them or the more trouble have with moving on. You need to look at it as if the connection is done, over, the end.

As someone who has been around the block quite a bit, with that comes an enormous amount of experience.  I have had exes come back, so I’m not just blowing around hot air. I generally stick to discussing content that I’ve experienced firsthand, then I pass it onto you or anyone interested. One of my exes came back to me three weeks after our break up, then again after a year and a half went by. Another ex I was involved with broke up with me. Three and a half years later passed and we ended up back together again and the relationship was better the second time around and lasted longer. Another ex came looking for me thirteen years after we broke up, and another ex of mine came looking for me twenty-years later. I know that’s a quite a number of exes, but to be clear there have been six long term relationships.  And the point is that every single one of my exes came back.

What did I do to get the exes back? Nothing. I wasn’t trying to get back with them. I moved on. I ignored them. I worked on forgetting about them. I continued on living life. The not seeing me or hearing from me indefinitely was beyond dreadful to them apparently. Maybe they didn’t know how to be in a relationship at the time when we were together, maybe they made a mistake breaking up, but in the end they all realized they could not have me permanently gone. What does that do for me? What if I’m not okay with that?

In the beginning, after the break up I did disappear. There was no way in Hell I was going to have their life shit in front of me.   However, because so much time had passed after the break ups with my exes, any painful wounds on my part had healed, so it didn’t bother me on a negative emotional level to have them wanting to hang around and be in contact at a much later date.   I didn’t care if they were on a date with someone because I had zero interest in wanting them back.

If you’re not in that space yet where that would be okay for you, then unfriend the ex from social media, or at least hide their posts so that you never see what they’re posting, but they’re still in your friends list. You have to emotionally train yourself to be strong, have resilience, not contact them, and stay away. Over time, if the relationship is intended to evolve into a new brighter relationship AFTER you’ve both healed and worked on yourselves, then that will happen naturally on its own time.

 

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Love Party of One, Soul Mates and Twin Flames,
and Jagger’s Revolution available in paperback and e-book.
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Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
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Being angry at someone else isn’t going to make them change, nor will it enlighten them

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Every hour spent angry is a waste of time. Take that anger and channel it positively through action that can fix or correct whatever it is your angry about, otherwise work on letting it go.

Being angry at someone else isn’t going to make them change or enlighten them. They’re off happily doing their thing while you’re at home brooding over something they did, said, or anything about them. This can be someone you know personally, a public figure, or a stranger.

 


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
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