Category Archives: Dude Lit

Bringing awareness for men suffering from body anxieties.

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It always rubs me the wrong way when I hear of someone body shaming another person. Even more so it rubs me the wrong way when I hear someone body shaming themselves not only in my presence, but in general period. I don’t want to hear that. Love all of yourself. Love and appreciate your bodies no matter what anyone says. Don’t compare yourselves or your bodies to other people. Everyone is uniquely beautiful. Everyone is beautiful period.

These men pose nude to promote male body positivity. While I know that women face this kind of outlandish scrutiny, but men of today do as well too, more than some realize.

One man says, “Up until recently, I couldn’t go swimming without wearing a t-shirt. I would never bare all in public. Not even shorts.”

These men spoke up about their body issues after they participated in a nude photo shoot to challenge “six-pack” culture.

Another man says, “I just don’t like my body, personally. You just look at other things, the way society is right now, you’re completely bombarded with Channing Tatum’s and Brad Pitts.”

The shoot was part of Alternative Fashion Fest. A fashion show that showcases diverse beauty. The organizers noticed a lack of awareness for men suffering from body anxieties.

Another guy says, “People seem to think it’s okay to tell me I’m too thin. So they’ll always comment about like, “Where’s your bum?”

The photos will be turned into a calendar and sold with ALL profits going to a mental health charity. Roll the brief clip on what they have to say:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Ugv7I5J_1g

 


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Archangel Michael is a fearless protector, bouncer, and bodyguard

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My youngest sister, the world traveler, texted this shot, “I know you’re probably asleep but I’m on a canal cruise in Amsterdam and saw that statue of Archangel Michael and thought you’d like it. Love you.”

That text was from my youngest sister who turned 22 a month ago, which if math is your strong suit then you know I’m 22 years older. She knows of my deep long term relationship with Archangel Michael. The furious force that moves around with me every second of every minute for the last sixteen years. Archangel Michael is available to all that call on him. He is the General that supervises, instructs, and commands all of the angels and all of the Warrior of Lights back home and on Earth. He is one of the most powerful beings of all existence striking out evil just by entering the vicinity. He is the only being in the Universe that is louder than God.

He is my protector and bodyguard bouncer instilling fearlessness and sometimes cockiness into my persona. Archangel Michael is fearless and cocky as he knows he is the sh*t as he sometimes brags about it by showing off his many spectrum of lights at times for no reason at all like a peacock displaying its feathers proudly laughing it off and moving on.

I devote a chapter to Archangel Michael in my book, “Connecting with the Archangels”.

 


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Two of my long term relationships to date started out as a crush

Image may contain: one or more people, sky, outdoor and natureCrushes are an intense infatuation for someone who is usually unattainable for you, but I’ve always obtained my crushes on some level eventually, which I know not many people can say that.  My romantic life is a series of romantic comedies come true, but it’s not without its challenges. Sometimes you later regret wanting them so fervently.

Two of my long term relationships started out as a crush where I realized that fate was persistently orchestrating our continuous path crossing in person. I had that heart pounding heart wrenching teenage crush on them for an extended period of time before we finally merged as one. There is a part of me that is overly confident that I’ve actually stated out loud each time, “I will get that person.”

Call me arrogant if you want, but the bottom line is that I do end up getting the crush more often than not, and I don’t have to do much to get them. All I have to do is stand in front of them and each one has taken over from there. Soon they’re making a beeline to me whenever they see me, pushing themselves through a crowd to talk to me, eventually the conversation moves beyond a hello, and then there’s long drawn sentences over the course of bumping into one another until suddenly we’re fucking dating eons later.

Once together, they confess they also had a crush on me, but claimed I didn’t seem to notice them. They thought I was intense, intimidating, or that they were barking up the wrong tree and I wasn’t interested. I do come off exceptionally cold and aloof that others believe it to be disinterest. It’s my Virgo Rising/Gemini-10th House. One of the things I later ask my crush is, “What made you finally come after me?” The responses are always the same, “I was afraid I might not see you again. ”

One of the first books I wrote was about having a crush on someone and getting them. “Jagger’s Revolution” was originally called, “The Love Crush”. It’s not a fantasy for me, it’s a dream come true. It was based on the premise of having a crush on someone that you couldn’t shake and it starts to drive you mad as you’re stuck with kissing all of these frogs that mean nothing to you, and the one you want doesn’t even know you exist. But in my real life world I actually get the crush the same way the character in “Sixteen Candles” does. The humility part of me sets in when I realize they had a mutual crush on me too.

A crush pulverizes you ultimately if nothing transpires out of it and yet you keep crossing paths with them and nothing ever happens. It’s an exciting feeling until it leads to frustration and you don’t know how to stop it. You realize you have to shake it off and forget about it until bam they’re standing in front of you again and this time they’re wanting to talk. I’m caught off guard, “Okay, I’m listening.” It gradually evolves from there after endless months of wanting to give up. I’m that challenging to get close to that it takes my crushes months to finally seal the deal…….but nine times out of ten….they eventually do.

How do you know if your crush is into you or not?   Eventually work up the nerve to confess it regardless of reaction.  If it backfires and doesn’t go your way, then at least you know sooner than later. Get it out in the open, then it’s up to the crush to decide how to proceed.  If they’re not receptive or display a reaction you weren’t hoping for, then move on and let it go.  That should be the confirmation to release it.

Crushes are fun and they make you feel good.  That is up until they don’t such as when you’re wondering if you’re wasting your time.  You start to feel pain or frustration not knowing what to do.   This is why they’re called crushes, because they ultimately crush you if nothing evolves out of that state.

It’s beautiful to feel an unexplainable attraction to someone and not know why. My crushing feelings tend to subside if nothing comes of it or I don’t see them for a period of time.  It’s out of sight out of mind, until they’re in front of me again and then the feelings and attraction rise up all over again.

The crushes I’ve obtained did tell me in the end what made them come at me at full force and their reasoning was the ‘fear they might never’ see me again.

❤️🌹

You walk through a nature setting and suddenly this uplifting feeling overcomes you where stresses evaporate and clarity seeps in. Nature is one of the best healing remedies.

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Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

The centered soul is in tune honing in on reasoning behind someone’s actions

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The voices of spirit are uplifting and calm, even if it is warning you of danger. They will guide, inspire, and lovingly coax you onward on your higher self’s path. Their intention is to help you stay focused and clear minded in order to accomplish your life purpose goals. They’re not fans of seeing anyone experience negative emotions and therefore desire to help you swiftly move past that when it hits you. It’s part of the human condition to have easy access to these feelings, since that is the doorway to communicating with Spirit. When the negative emotions over take you, then this blocks communication and does more harm than good to your overall well-being.

Even the most centered person on the planet experiences negative feelings from time to time. When that happens, they can readily glide over it and move back into a focused detached emotional state, rather than dwelling in the toxicity of negative emotions. Address something with assertive compassion that needs to be addressed, then let it go and move on.

The centered soul is in tune and can easily hone in on the reasoning behind someone’s actions that might have bothered them to begin with. They do this without judgement. This isn’t to be confused with making excuses for someone’s poor behavior, but it’s understanding what’s behind an action and choosing not to be a part of any blame, drama, or anything that brings you down or riles you up negatively. When you move into negative territory, then revert to focusing on activities and people that make you smile.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Strong psychic hits come through during orgasm masturbation

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I receive some of the strongest “hits” when I cum or I should say orgasm for the faint of hearing. This isn’t said to be shocking or offensive. This is purely from an analytical perspective.

The reason that happens is continuing with the theme of relaxation being the key to what cracks open the portal to spirit. When a guy orgasms, he reaches or experience an abrupt high or rush sensation of lightheadedness or euphoria that makes him suddenly very relaxed. This is partially due to the chemicals being released. I’m sure women can discuss whether they reach this same level of interconnectivity between themselves and spirit during orgasm.

This is also why some men pass out or fall asleep immediately following orgasm. The key in all of that is the “relaxation” state. The more relaxed you are, and yet clear minded, the stronger the input is that filters in from beyond the physical world. This isn’t something I’m striving for since like all Spirit messages, it flies in automatically regardless if I’m seeking it out or not. The strongest hits are when I’m not trying at all.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

The Venus Retrograde Pushes You to Re-evaluate All Relationships

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Venus is about to move retrograde this Saturday March 4th. It’ll be 40 days of reverting back to the drawing board where love, relationships, beauty, and money are concerned. The energy of the Venus Retrograde prompts one to reflect on those issues in a deeper way and examining where changes needs to be made.

The negative side effects to the Venus Retrograde can be a sudden tendency to feel greatly neglected, unloved, or be unable to love. Co-dependency and neediness will rise up to the surface. Examining ones overall sense of self and appearance to an unhealthy degree will become the theme from March-April.

Many relationships tend to break apart during a Venus Retrograde. These are the connections that were already on unstable ground to begin with. A solid relationship can withstand the Venus Retrograde energy.

It is possible to easily fall in love with someone new during a Venus Retrograde transit, but it’s best to wait until after Venus has moved direct before making a move. The energy prompts one to view others through a rose colored lens that seems to drop away when Venus goes direct causing one to wonder what they were thinking.

The benefits of the Venus Retrograde is the taking a step back to evaluate all of your connections and needs. Which ones need to be boosted up, which ones need to be dissolved, or modified. Release unhealthy partnerships whether it be friendships or lovers. This is also a good time to dust off projects, business ideas, and bring anything to completion that needs to be wrapped up.

Exes and old friendships tend to pop back in during a Venus Retrograde. I’ve already had numerous past lovers and friends popping back in again over the last number of days in a big way. Nostalgic feelings rise amidst the sudden neediness energy and one tends to realize what they lost or what’s missing in a bigger way during this transit.

It’s ironic that the planet Venus in this solar system has such a huge effect on love and relationships, but the planet itself is deadly to live on.  One day on planet Venus equals to about 3 1/2 months of Earth time.  The atmosphere is extremely toxic made up of sulfuric acid and temperatures reaching almost 900 degrees, which is hot enough to melt lead. The planet has an eerie look to it and at times even appears to have a glow in the dark effect.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

My Spirit Team Council of Guides and Angels

My Spirit team council have been around me for as long as I can remember, talking as loud as a human being would if they were standing next to me. I never needed a brick wall to fall on me to be 100% aware of their presence. It’s not like they suddenly showed up one day, because they have been indefinitely present since I was conscious.

From the perspective of a child, I knew then without questioning it that there were others around me that cannot be seen through one’s physical eyes. These beings move about with me like a private entourage going wherever I go. I’ve forever been cognizant that they connect from another dimension guiding me, warning me, telling me things that were later coming true. They work with me as if they are a staff I personally hired for this gig.

All of that confirmed to me from an early age that the Earth plane is just some bizarre alternate Universe structured in a way that is similar to a school that houses both students and teachers. It’s why I’ve viewed world events differently than the masses do and instead through the lens of the “others”, while never budging.

Over the course of my life, whether in school or professional endeavors, instructors or superiors would say, “I’d like to hear what Kevin has to say. Not to put you on the spot, but your point of view tends to typically be different than everyone else’s. It makes one consider the alternative and see things in another light.”

My new book, which will be out this April, is geared towards those looking to have a broader understanding of how to recognize your psychic gifts:

A Beginner’s Guide to the Four Psychic Clair Senses

Clairvoyance, Clairaudience, Claircognizance, Clairsentience


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Begin incorporating love and acceptance now on Valentine’s Day

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Valentine’s Day is a reminder for those who need the reminder that each day of your existence is about LOVE. This isn’t just about the romantic relationship kind of love. It is the global Universal kind of love. Loving your neighbor and the person standing next to you. Accepting those who live different lives than you do or who have different views. It’s learning to refrain from attacking or verbally bullying others because they don’t share your values. The reason all are here is to love and to learn how to love. When you pass on you are reminded at that point that it was supposed to be about love. Don’t wait for that to happen to come to that realization. Begin incorporating love and acceptance now.

Love themed books
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Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Compromise, cooperation, and tolerance are what changes an opposing perception

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Steer clear of any gossip, negative news, and media swirling around you. Detach and unplug if you have to. Get out into nature to clear your aura. Avoid getting caught up in time wasting drama that stalls you from moving forward. Noise and chaos change nothing. Has that worked at all on any level in the the last number of years? No, it hasn’t because it doesn’t work. It only expands that energy making circumstances bigger than they really are. The goal of the ego is to blindside and distract you. It’s been successful with that on a global scale more than it ever has. You are either preaching to the choir in that instant or you’re not. It will not give an opposing view an epiphany, nor will it enlighten anybody. That energy isn’t designed to sway anyone, so all it does is add to the noise making you believe it’s changing something until time passes and you realize it’s changed nothing. 

Compromise, cooperation, and tolerance are what changes an opposing perception. It’s meeting others half way and seeing their point of view and their goal, while lovingly getting them to see your view. This would also entail that you emotionally detach from events in order to come to a higher understanding. Focus on love and your higher self’s path knowing that all ends up well in the end.

I’ve always trusted the guidance coming in as it has never failed me. It has been consistently and dangerously accurate regardless if it’s the popular view or not.  I don’t pay any attention to that or care. While others have fallen into the black hole abyss of what’s being fed to them, I have continuously stood outside of it clear minded and focused as if viewing it through a glass wall in front of me. One could easily fall into the deepest suffocating madness of human world events, but I’ve been highly trained to not be swayed by the illusion presented. If I did that, then there would have been no reason to come here since that would mean I’m not ready or strong enough to withstand that energy. Don’t allow negativity and drama to sway you from your purpose. You become a wayshower by inspiring and enlightening, as well as showing love and compassion. Don’t forget who you are and why you are here.

It is a drag absorbing all of that negative energy.  I honestly don’t know how people do it day after day.  They get some kind of strange rush out of it.  I don’t watch the news or T.V.  It’s not hooked up, so I couldn’t even if I wanted to.  T.V. is banned in my house.  Not chosen DVD’s to play though.  But I do hear about the drama going on around the world from my circle.  So I’m not totally out of the loop.  I just don’t dive into it the way others do.  I’m exceptional at moving on and so should you be by way.   Be a true and definite warrior of light who shines so much light and love onto all sides.   Remain neutral and balanced steering clear of the noise.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Fear is what stalls humanity from evolving. Release it.

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Fear is your worst enemy. Living in the space of fear is what blocks you from moving forward. It keeps you spinning around in the same spot getting nowhere. Fear is what stalls humanity from evolving. Release it. Walk away and let go and let God. There is a reason circumstances take place beyond your control or current understanding.

Many are currently in the middle of that major crossroads I was talking about at the start of the year. 2017 is the year that more people than usual will be in that transition of deciding what move to make next.  This move is usually a drastic one such as leaving a relationship or job, or starting a new relationship or job.  It’s not resorted to just those two genres, but love and career are two of the top topics I receive from others of concern.

If you’re still droning on, obsessing, and dwelling over the presidential election, there are a great number of professional therapists, healers, and counselors from all walks of life that can work with you to help you move out of that rigid space of toxicity you’ve been stuck in.  They will assist in getting you off that hamster wheel and back on path in moving forward with life again.   You don’t want to find that another two years have gone by and you’re still upset about the results.  You’ve already wasted two years doing that.  It’s kind of like that person whose spouse left them after twenty years of marriage, and you’re still bitter and angry over it unable to move on.  Start by focusing on the positive blessings in your life and the ways you can continue to improve that.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

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