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The messages for the next few days are about self care. Take care of YOU.

Taking care of you and your needs is the repetitive message now. In this hectic fast paced existence where you’re running around taking care of other people or becoming hyper focused on your own negative feelings and current state of being, it can be easy to forget to stop and take a breath and focus on your needs. This includes a much overdue detox, preferably in nature, to clear away the cobwebs accumulated from the toxic harsh energies and chemicals in and around you. You can’t take care of other people if you’re not taken care of first. The Full Moon energy swirling around exacerbates feelings, thoughts, and circumstances making them bigger than they are. Take care of you and be open to receive the good around you.

On three separate hours, I pulled a card from a different deck and the card flipped over each time was connected to taking care of yourself. It doesn’t get any clearer than that. First was “self-care”, to the angel card calling for a time out to take care of yourself, to the “nurture yourself” card.

Leaving you with Alanis Morrissette’s song, “Receive”, which is an anthem to all the sensitive selfless people who need a day where it’s all about you. Pay attention to the lyrics.


Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Love Party of One: Surviving the Pitfalls of Dating and Relationships in a Loveless World

Love Party of One

Surviving the Pitfalls of Dating and Relationships in a Loveless World

Love Party of One
 examines the current love and dating world and what to expect for anyone struggling with being single and longing for love. Author, Kevin Hunter, is a love expert in love with all things surrounding the word love since he arrived on this planet. He has been out in the field studying the human condition since he was a teenager. This has included conducting social experiments as well as diving head first into the areas of love and dating in his own personal life.

One of the ways of surviving modern day dating and relationships in a loveless world is by armoring yourself with knowledge. This includes knowledge over the way things currently are. You’ve went to psychic readers, you’ve cast spells, you put yourself out there, did the vision boards, the crystal meditations, and other love rituals presented to you, but you still find you’re desperately wishing the person of your dreams was here already. You grow cynical as if it will never happen and that you just have to accept the fact that perhaps it’s not in the cards. Dating is a battlefield, be prepared to get dirty.

Kevin Hunter is best known for his endless array of spiritually based books.  In Love Party of One, he answers some of the practical issues that readers posed regarding their personal conflicts in the current dating market.  This is a non-denominational book with some light spiritual slang for anyone struggling as a single person in a loveless world.  This is regardless of age, background, or whether you are straight, bi, gay, male, or female. The dating market is an equal opportunity killer and no soul is exempt from the challenges they face when it comes to love.

Some of the topics discussed surround technological dating, falling in love with someone you’ve never met, codependency, exes, communicating, compromise, sex, marriage, monogamy vs. adultery, ageism, and more!


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Note from the Author

The majority of my published works to date are spiritually based empowerment books called the Warrior of Light series of books.  They are infused with practical messages and guidance that my Spirit team has taught and shared with me revolving around many different topics.  The main goal of those books is to fine tune your body, mind, and soul.  This improves humanity one person at a time.  You are a Divine communicator and perfectly adjusted and capable of receiving messages from spirit as anyone else in the world.

One of the top two questions I receive from readers surrounds the topics of love and relationships, while the other revolves around career.  Love and relationships are a major concern and theme for so many people.  The struggles one wades through in attempting to navigate through a loveless world has made love challenging to obtain or keep.

Although the bulk of material I’ve written are spiritually based empowerment works, I have nevertheless been out in the relationship and dating field my entire life.  Not only was I born having a basic understanding of the human condition, but I also came here as a love guide.  I’ve taken this knowledge out into the dating field studying, researching, and interviewing countless people about their ordeals in the love department.  I love all things love.

I, along with my Spirit team, enjoy seeing people investing in happy committed love bonds because this world doesn’t have enough love in it as it is.  I’ve also been out in the field dating and having relationships of various levels from short term, to long term, to committed, to non-committed.  I’ve had sexual encounters and one night stands.  I’ve had the kind of love that others dream about, but never obtain.  I’ve experienced what it’s like to be a natural Don Juan Casanova type.  I’ve sat down, discussed, and counseled people from all walks of life about their tribulations of being single, dating, and in love relationships.

My entire life has been devoted to all circumstances revolving around the word love.  Others have commented how comfortable they feel around me enough to reveal their deepest and darkest issues that include all things connected to love relationships.  When others are with me they have protested they are divulging information they wouldn’t normally say to anyone else.  Through this process, I’ve gained extensive knowledge of the difficulties that many are faced with in the current modern day dating world.  I understand the practical realities that exist, but I also have spiritual knowledge, guidance, and wisdom to share as to how that applies to the souls of today on Earth.

Heartbreak is an equal opportunity killer regardless if you’re male, female, gay, straight, bi, or whatever you identify to be in this lifetime.  In the end, it is irrelevant since all human souls experience the same heartbreak and rejection issues as any other.   There hasn’t been one person who has never been slighted by love.  If there is I would love to meet that person.

One of my first published pieces was a story loosely based on true accounts on having a crush on someone in my book, Jagger’s Revolution.  It was partially autobiographical and partially thrown in drama at the beginning of my career as an author.  This is where the lines are blurred to the extent that it would be difficult to detect which is real and what is fiction.  I’ve also written a spiritually based book on love and relationships that is the opposite end of that spectrum called, Soul Mates and Twin Flames.

I’ve been studying, researching, experimenting, and counseling people on love and relationships since my teenage years.  I’ve also assisted countless numbers of people through the treacherous waters of romance.  This is regardless of my own personal love life trajectory.  I have definitely walked into challenging personal love relationship situations knowing what I’m getting myself into.

As a lifelong incurable romantic and love addict, I love all things connected to LOVE.  It far supersedes the opposite extreme, which is lonely, isolating, addicting, and disconnected.  I’ve always admired couples that have been together for decades and yet continue to remain loving and supportive with one another.

I wanted to write a book that centered around the realities of dating in today’s challenging technologically based world and what it’s like without sugar coating it.  I’m not one who glosses over the darkness no matter what the content is.   What sometimes comes out of me as a strong opinion is divinely guided from my Wise One spiritual team, but put into my own words.  The information I convey with almost an assault like quality at times is from above to help others navigate through the distressing waters they might find themselves in.

Love Party of One is not necessarily a spiritually based book, even though there may be some hints of it sprinkled throughout, but much of the practical input is divinely guided through a sense of clear knowing, otherwise known as Claircognizance and clear hearing through my Clairaudience channel. The content includes the practical hardships others have faced in the love and relationship world and what to expect if you’re embarking into your teenage years, young adulthood, or new to the current dating relationship world.

There are many people who have faced the ending of a long term relationship. These are connections that have lasted years and some even decades.  They head back out there into the dating world only to discover it’s vastly changed.  This may shed some light on the way things have become.

~Kevin Hunter

Other love relationship oriented books available:

Jagger's Revolution by Kevin Hunter

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Cuddling, hugging, and touching have immense therapeutic properties

Cuddling, hugging, and touching have immense therapeutic properties. These acts assist to bring down your cortisol levels more rapidly than anything else. When you engage in these activities with someone, or your romantic partner, it assists in lightening the load or dissolving traces of unhappiness, stress, or upset. It raises your vibration and boosts oxytocin levels, which is the love drug hormone that calms your entire body and expands the soul’s light. Even if you don’t have a love partner, hugging a friend, or a pet can offer the same benefits.

Being physically touched and kissed repeatedly is like oxygen to me. It has the same endorphin release one gets through exercise. I am a walking love bug Casanova after all, which in the past has been a handful or detrimental when I placed it in the hands of the passion-less, the unromantic, or the non-committal.

Partaking in love activities such as regular touch can open up your clair channels to receive clearer guidance and messages from above in this state. Being in love releases the dopamine and oxytocin hormones. What’s erupted are upbeat feelings that create an overall sense of positive well-being. You’re basically high on life! You’re suddenly more focused and energetic able to accomplish things that you had previously put aside before you experienced Earth’s saving miracle called love. Love is like a drug, but a healthy one that gives you a natural high that no vice, cigarette, drink, drug, or bad food can offer or reach.

Like the song remember to just let your love flow like a mountain stream…

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Asking for heavenly help if you’re single

Kevin Hunter's photo.

You have a crush on someone and want to run into them again. You ask for heavenly help and then continuously run into this crush every so often. You both stare at each other with interest, but say nothing. You grow depressed thinking maybe that the crush isn’t interested. You ask for help again. Your Spirit team can get you both in the room together, but they cannot make you talk. That’s up to the both of you to do. It’s like someone can get you a job interview, but it’s up to you to get the job. You’re a self-sufficient thinking human being. You’re not a puppet on strings that Heaven is controlling or making you walk and talk.

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Stay focused on your goals and continue moving forward in the right spirit

Kevin Hunter's photo.

The message last week was ‘motivation’. If you recall, I mentioned that this would spill into the coming weeks up until the holidays. The message this week is ‘focus’, so this is still aligned with last week’s motivation message. This month is intended to be a very productive number of weeks before the end of the year. Continue to focus on what needs to be done. Stay on track, remain organized, have direction. Make those lists in a notepad of what you need to get done and would like to accomplish this month and get to it. Stay focused on your goals and continue moving forward in the right spirit! Heaven loves productivity, since it is the opposite of the deadly sin known as Sloth.

~  Kevin Hunter

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.

Mercury Retrograde is back! Keep your distance, relax, and use this time to clean house both literally and metaphorically

Kevin Hunter's photo.

Are you all ready for another Mercury Retrograde? Weeeee. Planet Mercury is slowing down to a crawl as it preps for backwards motion beginning Thursday September 17, 2015. The side effects are already being felt. Attitudes are rising, misunderstandings, poor communication, sour sluggish moods, technical issues, car problems and delays, delays, delays!

The best way to survive a Mercury Retrograde is to keep your distance, relax, and use this time to clean house both literally and metaphorically. Anything with ‘re’ in the phrase is a clue as to what to do. Re-lax, re-focus, re-view, re-vise. Or spend the next three weeks doing what this guy is doing in my photo. Chill out. Since pushing forward will likely be met with errors and resistance.

Hold off on moving forward with serious conversations until after October 10, 2015. You will be tempted to get into it with others too since misunderstandings and taking things the wrong way are going to be high until then. Unnecessary arguments about what someone said will be pretty common for the next three weeks. No matter what any party says they’ll be unable to see the other person’s point of view. Know that it’s planetary and leave it alone. Most of the someone’s tune has changed once Mercury moves forward. They realize then that they might have overreacted and can’t understand why. It’s Mercury baby – the planet that effects communication, electronics and transportation. All of those things go haywire when Mercury is Retrograde.

~  Kevin Hunter

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.


Full Moon and Venus Retrograde Calls for the Releasing of Toxic Connections and Addictions

Message for Friday thru Monday: It’s the blue Full Moon tonight in the middle of a Venus Retrograde. This is a time for releasing and letting go. Remove and release people, toxins, addictions, or anything that is not bringing you positive fulfillment or delaying you from getting to work.

Release anything that brings on negative feelings such as sadness, anger, depression, anxiety. This letting go process might be not what you expected or it’ll be forced if you’re resistant to it. The ego will have a tantrum and refuse to let go of something that has been toxic to your soul. There is no fighting it as it is for your own good. You are being called to hone in on what needs to be released and walk away.

The Venus Retrograde affects connections between two people. Mix that with the Full Moon and there will be tons of releasing around the world where relationships are concerned. Many will find that any union between two parties is being disbanded and dissolved. This can be love, friendship, colleague, acquaintance, family member, etc. Understand that not all connections are intended to last. They happen for a reason until the point becomes moot. This is when it is time to close the chapter on it. Connections that end at this time we’re either stale, already on unstable ground to begin with, or heading in the direction of completing. The Venus Retrograde/Full Moon basically opens the door and kicks you both out of it. Connections from the past may suddenly pop up to resolve and balance the karma or bury the hatchet. Receive it in the right spirit.

Whenever I pull from the Archangels deck on the Full Moon, I’m never surprised when my Spirit team has me flip over the “Moon Cycles” cards. I really do it as a little private joke. I say beforehand, “I’m gonna pull from this deck and I know you’re going to show me the Moon Cycles card.” One of my Spirit team members says into my ear in the middle of shuffling, “Stop”. I flip the card over and there it is.

“Eight of Raphael” is the other card I pulled from the Archangel Power Tarot. The woman is walking away in the image. She’s walking away from circumstances that have run its course, but she’s crossing a bridge to where Archangel Raphael awaits her. He will be guiding her to new destinies and circumstances. Release the old in order to invite something new and better into your life. If you hang onto what’s not working, then you’ll only delay matters.

~  Kevin Hunter

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.


Cut Cords to what no longer serves you and your higher self

There are etheric cords which grow and form between yourself and any object you place your focus on, whether positive or negative. This object can be people, material items, or even your thoughts and feelings. Clairvoyantly this cord looks like a gasoline hose that is dark, dirty and wrapped in grey cobwebs. It drains your life force and lowers your vibration, especially if it’s negative.

This week is the perfect time to begin releasing and cutting cords to anyone or anything that is toxic, not of love, or of benefit to your higher self’s path. If you’re wondering what cords you need to release, then examine the negative emotions you’re feeling around anyone or anything. Are you feeling sad, depressed, argumentative, stressed or angry? Then whatever your upset is targeted to is what you need to release. Let it all go, release it or let them go. When you cut the cords and release it, then you open the door that brings in new good stuff! You also feel an uplifting surge of positive energy that raises your vibration. All you have to say is, “Archangel Michael please cut the cords between myself and (name of person, feeling, material object here)”

[ I delve deeper into Cord Cutting in my pocket book, “Raising Your Vibration”. ]

~  Kevin Hunter

Empowerment, inspirational and self-help books by Kevin Hunter
are available in paperback and kindle wherever books are sold.


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