Venus moves Retrograde prompting neediness and feelings of being unloved

The planet Venus is in the shadow prepping to move retrograde on December 21, 2013 until January 31, 2014. This will be an interesting and potentially problematic holiday season for many couples out there.

Between now and the end of January you might notice that many people will be needier than usual. It’s going to start building everyday as we move towards the end of December. They will be feeling heavily unloved and/or rejected. Some may even have tantrums that are disguised in the form of feeling victimized or martyrdom. This will not be a time to date or get involved with new people as the odds of it lasting will be slim. It will most likely be over at some point around Valentine’s Day making that an unhappy holiday.

If you do happen to meet someone after December 21st, then take it slow, do not move forward. Wait until February and you will know if you were seeing it with rose-colored glasses or not. Most likely you were blinded. Current friendships and relationships that have been rocky WILL end during the Venus Retrograde. Others will question their current friendships and relationships. They will axe those who are no longer fulfilling in any way. This is the benefit of Venus Retrograde is that you also cleanse and release friendships and relationships that have been toxic. Many will retreat, be distant or simply disappear for a while.

One of the dangers of the Venus Retrograde is that people tend to fall in love during this cycle. They are likely feeling lonely or needy and easily fall hard for someone new during the transit by putting them on a pedestal and idealizing them. This is exactly what you shouldn’t do. The potential mates that one is attracted to are also typically not what that person would normally be attracted to. When Venus moves forward, the rose-colored fog is lifted and they’re wondering what they saw in that person. Or worse that person’s true colors come out you find they’re not as interesting in you as you are of them.

On top of that, the person doing the sudden idealizing might have left the one that was supposed to be right for them as a partner. You can see how drama can ensue during a venus Retrograde when it comes to love. Planets don’t tear people up. They do however affect the energy. If a relationship was toxic to begin with, the Venus Retrograde is doing them both a favor by separating them.

On the brighter side, others will find that people from the past, such as ex-lovers and former friends will be popping back up for unfinished business or closure. Those are the only relationships during this period that have a shot at being rekindled and reworked. You will know by February if it’s a relationship that can start as a fresh new union or not.

This energy is due heavily to planet Venus moving Retrograde. Test my hypothesis before you discredit it and notice if any of these things I’ve mentioned happen between now and end of January. Remember, Eros doesn’t always play fair…

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