There is no such thing as a perfect relationship and even if I were with the most greatest man in the world, we will have some lows in our relationship as well

“People make mistakes, we are not infallible, but flawed human beings. Someone will always do something or say something at some point with you that will be perceived as a slight. Even someone you find to be the greatest person alive. You end up writing a lot of people off in the process because there is no way for anyone to be with you and not make what is considered a mistake in your eyes.

There are the obvious instant dismissals that most everyone has that include cheating/adultery or stealing, constantly lying. Or they were never in love with you to begin with and were with you for superficial reasons. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship and even if I were with the most greatest man in the world, we will have some lows in our relationship as well. We may butt heads on occasion or feel neglected or have communication problems.  If I wrote them off at every tiny slight then I’d end up alone forever. Which is probably what’s going to happen to my previous guy anyway as he’s notorious for being like that. He’s been with several guys in 2-3 month relationships since he was with me.  At some point with them he woke up and suddenly realized he didn’t like what they said or did and ended it taking no responsibility.

Alright – haven’t forgot romancing it up, my mindset is in a different place as I’m writing a horror. My love story writing is already done and out. I’ve been honing into a darker detached place for this particular story. Sometimes just like an actor you carry it with you through the book or movie or whatever piece your working on.”

-Kevin Hunter

Author of Jagger’s Revolution and Dude 101

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Posted on January 27, 2012, in Dating (Social Customs), Dude Lit, Essays, Kevin Hunter Author Writer, Love and Relationships, Love/Sex/Marriage, Man-Man Relationships, Men, Sex, Sex Customs, Sexuality and tagged , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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